You would need to know the full details of this woman's madness -- she suffers chronically from compulsive obsessional behavioural disorders .
Bella , I told her on a Friday morning that I felt things were not working out well and that I thought it best that I move out and in fact was going home .
She went berserk and told me to pack and leave immediately within 30 minutes .Her pride was hurt and she had absolutely no idea of her shortcomings and totally unacceptable behaviour .
I had no mobile phone and no Ukrainian money at all because  she had managed to avoid taking me to the central Bank on both days I was there , despite me telling her each day that I needed to make a currency change .
You must also know that she had got blind drunk the previous evening  , as had her friend and  to the extent that she assaulted me and finally had to be put to bed because she could literally not walk or stand up without falling over .So bad was her hang over on Friday morning  that I persuaded her to take some of my heavy duty pain killers  that I carry for my back  , so that she could just function .For a variety of reasons during the drink orgy  I had " played clever" and drunk the minimum amount needed not to appear anti social and ,   in comparison , was nowhere near being drunk . In fact I stayed up and cleaned up the mess , washed and dried everything , put everything away and generally tidied the complete sitting room .
This lady would  and could not understand in her still half drunk state  that I needed to talk to Donetsk airport and also Ukraine International airline in order to change my flight tickets . I was booked to return on January 10 th but the day I left her was December 31 st --- New Years Eve !!!
I had actually left her place by 10 .15 am and had managed to change my flight arrangements in that short time .Her comment is not only nonsensical , it is completely untrue .
You also need to know how it was that I stayed in her flat . At the very beginning  , I asked her to suggest one or two suitable hotels but she insisted that I come to her place . After the matter was further discussed ,  I came to the conclusion that this woman was simply being very polite and hospitable  --- which I applauded ---- and that it reflected the confidence that she apparently  felt in me after we had written every day and at least once a day . Even  a few days before I travelled I repeated my misgivings because I know how important it is for a woman not to be compromised or embarrassed and the effect it could have with neighbours . She not only repeated her offer but seemed mortified that I would even query the arrangement .
So when you talk about paying her equivalent Hotel costs , you are talking absolute nonsense . Nobody in the world pays for things they might have had . What did this woman want ? To make a profit ? 
Yet I paid her £200 for two nights stay and if you knew the details you would question whether I was being sensible and over generous . Not one person who knows the complete story believes I should have given  her anything .
I repeat . Not one person who knows the full story believes I should have given anything . They think I was a fool and far too forgiving .
So imagine what happened to make such a conclusion fair and reasonable .
Yet I gave her about $350 for eating --  for very little ,  apart from her drunken booze session drinks which I had no part in requesting or actually wanting .
She ended in profit on out of pocket expenses  , whereas I paid out about $1300 in total --- which I have written off to experience and History !!!!
Don't accuse me of " shaking my wallet in front of your noses" .That is a shameful thing to say .
She has  said certain things and I am responding in detail with what happened . She has not told the truth .
You still don't know anywhere need the complete story ,  and you should ask yourself why someone booked to stay until January 10 th would leave on December 31 st , New Year's Eve . Ask yourself what type of behaviour might have brought this situation to such a sad end .
As regards Novice , the computer has translated your question by using the word " Lovelace" . This has no English meaning so I have no idea what the reference means  in her mind .
I will leave one thought with you  . This woman was scared rigid that I was going to identify her and give the details of this ghastly incident . Once again she shows her immaturity by assuming others will do what she has done .I had  actually rubbed the incident from my mind other than as  a story I told people here  because the whole saga was totally amazing and I have always been able to laugh at myself , particularly when I make bad judgements , albeit possibly only with the benefit of hindsight .
My view  , when I hear of incidents like this ,  is that invariably there is fire when you see a lot of smoke , and that , therefore  , responsibility and blame are probably roughly  equal .
In this instance the division was something like 98% to 2% and my part represents the bad error of giving in to her words and not believing my instincts and experience in key areas .
Telling the full story would paint the woman as stupid and very selfish , which , at one level she is .
But I can separately see that her situation is a very sad one and she has become trapped in her past and needs considerable professional help in many areas .
I am not entirely happy with public character assassination but the silly woman should have kept quiet for she has opened a can of stinking worms and ultimately she will be the only figure of fun , because time always leads to the truth and I have nothing to hide or be the least bit embarrassed about .
To the contrary ,  I was a gentleman throughout and in my younger days might have seriously thought about taking far stronger action instead of being as kind as possible in the situation and very diplomatic .

Miss Banana !
Jumping on a plane for a three hour trip ( Gatwick --Kiev) is like a long taxi ride these days . It is no " big deal" for me and many others .
She claimed to be person of wide ranging interests and had a love of Poetry .And though she said she spoke very few words at the beginning , she volunteered and arranged to start English lessons three weeks after we started writing . See previous Post .
I did not expect anybody to lie so blatantly and pointlessly . I invested some trust in her . Is that bad?